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25 Open-Ended Questions for Conversations in Long-Term Relationships
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Olivia gardens

Ever had that completely silent car ride home…

Where neither of you know what to say?

In long-term relationships, it’s easy to feel like you’ve covered every topic.

However, we bet that there are some things you don’t know about your partner.

That’s why today, we’re coming to you with 25 open-ended questions that can help you learn more about your lover.

Feel free to ask them when you feel like you want to say something, but don’t know what.

  1. What are some dreams or goals you still want to achieve?
  2. What’s a hobby or interest you’ve always wanted to explore?
  3. Can you tell me about a significant moment in your life that shaped who you are today?
  4. What childhood memory always makes you smile?
  5. What’s a book, movie, or song that has had a significant impact on you?
  6. How do you like to spend your alone time?
  7. What’s something you’ve learned recently?
  8. What do you consider your greatest achievement?
  9. What helps you relax?
  10. What’s a lesson you’ve learned from a past mistake?
  11. What are some experiences you’d love to share together in the future?
  12. What qualities do you value most in friends?
  13. What’s a personal goal you have for next year?
  14. How do you define success for yourself?
  15. What’s something you’re passionate about?
  16. How do you like to express creativity?
  17. What’s a childhood activity that you miss?
  18. What’s a topic you wish you knew more about?
  19. What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever got?
  20. How do you prefer to spend a weekend?
  21. What are some places you’d love to travel to and why?
  22. What’s something you’ve done that you’re really proud of but don’t often talk about?
  23. How do you handle change or unexpected events?
  24. What’s a habit or routine that you find really beneficial?
  25. What’s a story from your past that you love to tell?

Feel free to ask these questions whenever you feel the need to connect.

Just don’t forget to listen!